My fiance is getting soooo laid tonight…

I used to really struggle with being able to allow a partner to care for me, which actually caused a lot of issues in my current relationship in the beginning.
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It felt vulnerable, scary, embarrassing, and I thought I was opening myself up to the potential to be disappointed – no thanks!
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But one of the ways that my fiance shows me love is through acts of service – he does the dishes, brings me a glass of water, and makes me lunch when he’s making some for himself
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So as I was sitting in the kitchen today, totally immersed in my work flow, he made me lunch and in that moment I felt so damn loved
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I didn’t used to let myself feel that – I had these beliefs that I shouldn’t allow a partner to take care of me and by holding onto those beliefs, I was cock-blocking myself from receiving a ton of pleasure
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This cock-blocking was of course not isolated to events outside of the bedroom (it never is) – I rarely communicated openly whether I was able to finish or not, what felt good, and struggled to ask for what I wanted.
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Allowing yourself to receive pleasure, in the bedroom or out of it, is key to you experiencing the turn-on that you crave.
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When you’re minimizing your pleasure, you’re quieting that sexy, sensual, beautiful part of you that so desires to be seen.
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When my fiance made me lunch, it was a simple act of care that was absolutely foreplay because it allowed me to experience and receive pleasure. So yeah, he’s definitely getting it later 😉🔥💋